Realizing that a parent or loved one might need help at home is emotional and often overwhelming. Many families wait too long—not out of neglect, but because the signs are easy to miss or explain away.
If you’re asking yourself, “Is it time to get help?”—this guide is for you.
1. Changes in Personal Hygiene
Have you noticed that your loved one:
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Wears the same clothes for several days?
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Smells of body odor or urine?
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Has unbrushed teeth or unwashed hair?
Poor hygiene is often one of the first red flags. It can point to physical limitations, memory loss, or emotional struggles like depression.
2. Missed Medications
Are medications being taken on time—or at all?
If pill bottles are full, or prescriptions are refilled too early or late, your loved one could be at risk of serious health issues. A caregiver can help ensure they stay on schedule safely.
3. Increased Falls or Balance Issues
Falls are one of the top reasons seniors end up in the hospital. If your loved one:
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Has bruises they can’t explain
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Needs to hold onto furniture or walls
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Hesitates when getting up or walking
…it may be time to step in with support. In-home caregivers help reduce fall risks by providing supervision while assisting with mobility and making the home safer.
4. Forgetfulness or Confusion
Everyone forgets things now and then—but regular confusion, getting lost, or forgetting how to do familiar tasks may indicate cognitive decline or dementia.
If your loved one:
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Leaves the stove on
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Misses appointments
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Repeats questions constantly
…it’s time to consider a caregiver trained in memory care.
5. Isolation and Loneliness
Do they spend most of their time alone?
Social isolation can impact both mental and physical health. If your loved one no longer participates in hobbies or avoids phone calls, they may need companionship and emotional support.
A caregiver doesn’t just provide help—they also offer connection and conversation.
6. Housekeeping and Meals Are Being Neglected
Take a look around their home. Is it:
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Cluttered or dirty?
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Full of expired food?
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Missing essentials like clean laundry or toilet paper?
Difficulty managing everyday tasks is a strong signal that home care could be beneficial. Caregivers can help keep things clean, organized, and safe.
7. You’re Feeling Burned Out
If you’re the one providing care, ask yourself:
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Am I constantly worried or exhausted?
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Do I feel like I can’t keep up?
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Has caregiving impacted my work or relationships?
You’re not alone—and you don’t have to do this by yourself. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not failure.
Why Families in Lake, Cook, DuPage, and Kane Counties Trust In-Home Care
At One Compassionate Home Care, we help families across northern Illinois find trusted caregivers who treat every client like family. Whether you’re just starting to explore options or ready to get support now, we’re here to guide you.
Next Steps
If you’re seeing one or more of these signs, we encourage you to schedule a free assessment or call us to talk with a care coordinator. We’ll help you decide if home care is right—and design a plan that fits your loved one’s needs.